Family, Identity

All Hallows Eve

October 28, 2025

Hallowe’en is well-known (at least in my world) as a Big GAY Holiday that has all the celebration of modern gay pride parties without the direct connection to our painful history. That’s not meant as [read more]

Designs I Like

Queer Gift Idea- December Rose

October 25, 2025

December Rose World AIDS Day 2010 All the photographs in this volume were taken on December 1st 2010; World Aids Day. “Why roses?” you might ask. I could talk about their near-universal symbolism or ruminate [read more]

Card Readings

I Want to See Your Queer Deck

October 16, 2025

As I settle into being a Queer Elder (due to age, some experience, and alotta luck) my energies are devoted to sharing what I’ve learned. One way I can blend my “lived experience” with skills [read more]

LGBTITQQ2S

LGBTQ History Month

October 1, 2025

October is celebrated as LGBT/Queer History Month in some places. I have picked out just a few posts from the hundred+ in my LGBTiTQQ2S and Family & Identities categories to highlight. Today in Canadian Queer [read more]

Family, Identity

CanQueer Elder Looking to Repatriate

September 20, 2025

This Canadian-born Queer Elder is looking to move home (with his husband) to be surrounded by his siblings and generations of their descendants. Not just because of the current state of affairs down here, although [read more]

Designs I Like

Book Bargain Bonanza

September 5, 2025

Adulting Is Balance and, sometimes, Compromise. When I created this post I discounted all the titles at Amzn as a short ‘going out of print’ sale, even though as a Print On Demand book there’s [read more]