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World AIDS Day

December 1, 2023

“What is remembered, lives“ I Came Out in 1978. Before I turned 25 what we now know as hiv/aids erupted in gay communities across North America- and elsewhere. Large swaths of my generation (and others) [read more]

Card Readings

How Does Tarot Work?

November 30, 2023

Sure, decks are just dots of ink printed on cards. But from that starting point our brain ‘sees images’ and our subconscious makes associations…. are we tapping into personal history, genetic history, angels, Jung’s Collective [read more]

Family, Identity

Coming Out 2023

November 25, 2023

I Came Out (as gay) in 1978. I’ve shared that story in this post. This century I prefer the term Queer. I’ve also used this blog to Come Out as both spiritual and a kinkster [read more]


The Music of Sister Who

November 7, 2023

Sister Who is a friend. They are also what Sister Mish (co-founder of the San Francisco Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence) calls a “Sister in Solidarity” – someone who supports the aims of that Order without [read more]

Politics And More

Reducing My Amzn Footprint

November 1, 2023

Original Post: 11/16/2021 A few years ago I decided to reduce, and ultimately eliminate, Amzn as a supplier. Today’s post will update my progress; looking at my purchases from them, earning Affiliate fees for promoting [read more]

Family, Identity

Statement of Intent

October 30, 2023

I’m an Elder, first perhaps by default (“last man standing” as it were). But also because I want need to share my wisdom (or at least experience) to encourage younger generations of my various communities. [read more]

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