Family, Identity

All Hallows Eve

October 28, 2025

Hallowe’en is well-known (at least in my world) as a Big GAY Holiday that has all the celebration of modern gay pride parties without the direct connection to our painful history. That’s not meant as [read more]

Designs I Like

Queer Gift Idea- December Rose

October 25, 2025

December Rose World AIDS Day 2010 All the photographs in this volume were taken on December 1st 2010; World Aids Day. “Why roses?” you might ask. I could talk about their near-universal symbolism or ruminate [read more]

Card Readings

I Want to See Your Queer Deck

October 16, 2025

As I settle into being a Queer Elder (due to age, some experience, and alotta luck) my energies are devoted to sharing what I’ve learned. One way I can blend my “lived experience” with skills [read more]

Family, Identity

What is Love?

October 12, 2025

When I was interviewed by K for the Lost Spaces Podcast he asked me (in response to something I’d said) ““what is love?” My off the cuff my response was “the greatest joy and the [read more]

LGBTITQQ2S

LGBTQ History Month

October 1, 2025

October is celebrated as LGBT/Queer History Month in some places. I have picked out just a few posts from the hundred+ in my LGBTiTQQ2S and Family & Identities categories to highlight. Today in Canadian Queer [read more]